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A handshake is a good example: when you go give one to someone, you don't actually touch them, you extend your hand and wait for their explicit (if non-verbal) consent.

As for patting backs, do avoid doing so. Many of us don't like it even if it's totally non-sexual.



> "As for patting backs, do avoid doing so. Many of us don't like it even if it's totally non-sexual."

...and many of us do like being patted on the back (non-condescending of course).

Perhaps in the future, we will all have to work in an environment where no touching of any sort is allowed, ever, but I can't help thinking that would be a step backwards.


Maybe we can have two office sections, one for touch-me-nots, and one for less sensitive people, like smoking and non-smoking sections.




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