Most people accepted the development sandbox Microsoft graciously allowed and turned it into a fairly thriving 'homebrew' scene: see the https://xbdev.store/
It's just a shame Sony gatekeeps running any kind of personal code on the platform and that access to development tools is a total nightmare.
You may want to have a look to Moonlight, that's more performant than Steam link.
I haven't tried it on Xbox but used it on a Steam deck and between PCs. It worked flawlessly on a not-so-good WiFi.